Thank you! I do enjoy doing kids parties, it's a real chance to let my obsessive nature out to play in a way that lets me be awesome at awesome things rather than just crippled in my ability to cope with perfectly ordinary things.

Yeah, it's always funny when people don't understand something that you've written that seems perfectly obvious to you. It's like... woah you completely missed the point on that, and then it's always a bit awkward how to respond. This one's not like that, it's a fic with genuinely many ways of looking at things, and I've made a habit of engaging in deep discussions in the comments, and I'm really interested in what the answer to this particular question is... But then I lose hours of my very limited time thinking and changing my mind rather than moving on and creating new stuff. :)